Embarrassed by your other half?

Even though you love your other half, do you feel embarrassed by the way they dress or the way they present themselves to the world?

That can happen in relationships over time! Normally, with women, it happens once a baby comes into the house as she 'has no time' for herself, or menopause, and for men, it's marriage!

"Who's going to look at me?" ask both partners. One, a new mother in tracks that are torn at the hem for being too long, with a pair of rubber slippers and her husband's T-Shirt. She has her hair tied back into a claw clip and no sign of any makeup what-so-ever. And two, the Husband, wearing a T-Shirt that has a stain on it, is too tight for him to breathe ( it's as good as shape wear) and in a pair of light wash jeans with a pleated front ( I thought they stopped manufacturing those)!

You'd be surprised that, as much as you don't want, people do notice. And they notice everything.

If at one time you were the one who made the effort to dress well and look great, and now you've given up as you're a mother/father, don't have the time, or just can't be bothered, then it's not the right thing to do. For yourself, and your relationship!!

If you're the one staying at home as your partner wears those hideous clothes and is no longer paying attention to their appearance, then you need to help them. By taking your partner out for shopping and pampering them, it could make them feel better. If you can't do it, get a professional to help them out.
Tell your partner that you want him/her to dress well, not only for you but for themselves as well. It'll create more happiness in the relationship.